I never graduated from college. Truth be told, this is the closest I've ever gotten to a college graduation. Today I want to tell you three stories from my life. That's it. No big deal. Just three stories.
The first story is about connecting the dots. I dropped out of Reed College after the first 6 months, but then stayed around as a drop-in for another 18 months or so before I really quit. So why did I drop out?
I naively chose a college that was almost as expensive as Stanford, and all of my working-class parents' savings were being spent on my college tuition. After six months, I couldn't see the value in it. I had no idea what I wanted to do with my life and no idea how college was going to help me figure it out. And here I was spending all of the money my parents had saved their entire life. So I decided to drop out and trust that it would all work out OK. It was pretty scary at the time, but looking back it was one of the best decisions I ever made. The minute I dropped out I could stop taking the required classes that didn't interest me, and begin dropping in on the ones that looked interesting.
It wasn't all romantic. I didn't have a dorm room, so I slept on the floor in friends' rooms, I returned coke bottles for the 5¢ deposits to buy food with, and I would walk the 7 miles across town every Sunday night to get one good meal a week at the Hare Krishna temple. I loved it. And much of what I stumbled into by following my curiosity and intuition turned out to be priceless later on. Let me give you one example:
Reed College at that time offered perhaps the best calligraphy instruction in the country. Throughout the campus every poster, every label on every drawer, was beautifully hand calligraphed. Because I had dropped out and didn't have to take the normal classes, I decided to take a calligraphy class to learn how to do this. I learned about serif and san serif typefaces, about varying the amount of space between different letter combinations, about what makes great typography great. It was beautiful, historical, artistically subtle in a way that science can't capture, and I found it fascinating.
None of this had even a hope of any practical application in my life. But ten years later, when we were designing the first Macintosh computer, it all came back to me. And we designed it all into the Mac. It was the first computer with beautiful typography. If I had never dropped in on that single course in college, the Mac would have never had multiple typefaces or proportionally spaced fonts. And since Windows just copied the Mac, it's likely that no personal computer would have them. If I had never dropped out, I would have never dropped in on this calligraphy class, and personal computers might not have the wonderful typography that they do. Of course it was impossible to connect the dots looking forward when I was in college. But it was very, very clear looking backwards ten years later.
Again, you can't connect the dots looking forward; you can only connect them looking backwards. So you have to trust that the dots will somehow connect in your future. You have to trust in something — your gut, destiny, life, karma, whatever. This approach has never let me down, and it has made all the difference in my life.
My second story is about love and loss. I was lucky — I found what I loved to do early in life. Woz and I started Apple in my parents garage when I was 20. We worked hard, and in 10 years Apple had grown from just the two of us in a garage into a $2 billion company with over 4000 employees. We had just released our finest creation — the Macintosh — a year earlier, and I had just turned 30. And then I got fired. How can you get fired from a company you started? Well, as Apple grew we hired someone who I thought was very talented to run the company with me, and for the first year or so things went well. But then our visions of the future began to diverge and eventually we had a falling out. When we did, our Board of Directors sided with him. So at 30 I was out. And very publicly out. What had been the focus of my entire adult life was gone, and it was devastating.
I really didn't know what to do for a few months. I was a very public failure, and I even thought about running away from the valley. But something slowly began to dawn on me — I still loved what I did. The turn of events at Apple had not changed that one bit. I had been rejected, but I was still in love. And so I decided to start over.
I didn't see it then, but it turned out that getting fired from Apple was the best thing that could have ever happened to me. The heaviness of being successful was replaced by the lightness of being a beginner again, less sure about everything. It freed me to enter one of the most creative periods of my life.
During the next five years, I started a company named NeXT, another company named Pixar, and fell in love with an amazing woman who would become my wife. Pixar went on to create the worlds first computer animated feature film, Toy Story, and is now the most successful animation studio in the world. In a remarkable turn of events, Apple bought NeXT, I returned to Apple, and the technology we developed at NeXT is at the heart of Apple's current renaissance. And Laurene and I have a wonderful family together.
I'm pretty sure none of this would have happened if I hadn't been fired from Apple. It was an awful tasting medicine, but I guess the patient needed it. Sometimes life hits you in the head with a brick. Don't lose faith. I'm convinced that the only thing that kept me going was that I loved what I did. You've got to find what you love. And that is as true for your work as it is for your lovers. Your work is going to fill a large part of your life, and the only way to be truly satisfied is to do what you believe is great work. And the only way to do great work is to love what you do. If you haven't found it yet, keep looking. Don't settle. As with all matters of the heart, you'll know when you find it. And, like any great relationship, it just gets better and better as the years roll on. So keep looking until you find it. Don't settle.
My third story is about death. When I was 17, I read a quote that went something like: "If you live each day as if it was your last, someday you'll most certainly be right." It made an impression on me, and since then, for the past 33 years, I have looked in the mirror every morning and asked myself: "If today were the last day of my life, would I want to do what I am about to do today?" And whenever the answer has been "No" for too many days in a row, I know I need to change something.
Remembering that I'll be dead soon is the most important tool I've ever encountered to help me make the big choices in life. Because almost everything — all external expectations, all pride, all fear of embarrassment or failure - these things just fall away in the face of death, leaving only what is truly important. Remembering that you are going to die is the best way I know to avoid the trap of thinking you have something to lose. You are already naked. There is no reason not to follow your heart.
About a year ago I was diagnosed with cancer. I had a scan at 7:30 in the morning, and it clearly showed a tumor on my pancreas. I didn't even know what a pancreas was. The doctors told me this was almost certainly a type of cancer that is incurable, and that I should expect to live no longer than three to six months. My doctor advised me to go home and get my affairs in order, which is doctor's code for prepare to die. It means to try to tell your kids everything you thought you'd have the next 10 years to tell them in just a few months. It means to make sure everything is buttoned up so that it will be as easy as possible for your family. It means to say your goodbyes.
I lived with that diagnosis all day. Later that evening I had a biopsy, where they stuck an endoscope down my throat, through my stomach and into my intestines, put a needle into my pancreas and got a few cells from the tumor. I was sedated, but my wife, who was there, told me that when they viewed the cells under a microscope the doctors started crying because it turned out to be a very rare form of pancreatic cancer that is curable with surgery. I had the surgery and I'm fine now.
This was the closest I've been to facing death, and I hope it's the closest I get for a few more decades. Having lived through it, I can now say this to you with a bit more certainty than when death was a useful but purely intellectual concept:
No one wants to die. Even people who want to go to heaven don't want to die to get there. And yet death is the destination we all share. No one has ever escaped it. And that is as it should be, because Death is very likely the single best invention of Life. It is Life's change agent. It clears out the old to make way for the new. Right now the new is you, but someday not too long from now, you will gradually become the old and be cleared away. Sorry to be so dramatic, but it is quite true.
Your time is limited, so don't waste it living someone else's life. Don't be trapped by dogma — which is living with the results of other people's thinking. Don't let the noise of others' opinions drown out your own inner voice. And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow already know what you truly want to become. Everything else is secondary.
When I was young, there was an amazing publication called The Whole Earth Catalog, which was one of the bibles of my generation. It was created by a fellow named Stewart Brand not far from here in Menlo Park, and he brought it to life with his poetic touch. This was in the late 1960's, before personal computers and desktop publishing, so it was all made with typewriters, scissors, and polaroid cameras. It was sort of like Google in paperback form, 35 years before Google came along: it was idealistic, and overflowing with neat tools and great notions.
Stewart and his team put out several issues of The Whole Earth Catalog, and then when it had run its course, they put out a final issue. It was the mid-1970s, and I was your age. On the back cover of their final issue was a photograph of an early morning country road, the kind you might find yourself hitchhiking on if you were so adventurous. Beneath it were the words: "Stay Hungry. Stay Foolish." It was their farewell message as they signed off. Stay Hungry. Stay Foolish. And I have always wished that for myself. And now, as you graduate to begin anew, I wish that for you.
Stay Hungry. Stay Foolish.
- Speech by Steve Jobs, Apple co-founder.
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"Being the richest man in the cemetery doesn't matter to me. Going to bed at night saying we've done something wonderful, that's what matters to me".
---Steve Jobs
I have heard this speech many times. It inspires us when we are down.
Thank you Sir for the article.
Completely programmed programmed. One of the greats.
Ilango ur site is like a moksha satsang on weekends and
artha satsang on weekdays.
Thank you.
EXCELLENCE..thy name was STEVE JOBS....NOW....thy name is JUST NIFTY...
Thank you for all the guidance.
Very nice and inspiring speech by Steve Jobs. Thanks Ilango.
Regards,
Veer
Namaste Ilango Sir.
Excellent inspiring address. Heard repeatedly and enjoyed.
Regards,
LV
Very encouraging & inspiring article as always sir.
Regards.
Only one dropped out turned out to be a legendary tech king - Steve Jobs
Only one trader who went bankcrupt more than 2 times and still got back everything and standing tall as a legendary trader – Jesse Livermore
Only one poor youngster worked for Salary of mere Rs.300 turned out to be emperor of conglomerate – Thirubai Ambani
Only one bus conductor turned out to be a Super star – Rajinikanth
But we all are aware that,
Millions of dropped out bright minds lost their life in search of success– we know about our own friends.
Millions of traders closing their accounts and being thrown away from markets.
Millions of start-ups and good businesses burnt their fingers and ran away from business.
Thousands of actors and directors still searching for their first attempt in bollywood/kollywood/tollywood streets.
Moral of the story especially to the traders – Don’t take the motivation from the succeeded ones. They are one out of million or billion. Stick to your own basics. Failing which you will be one among the millions and billions who lost their life.
@ Nanjil,
I beg to differ.
I have always enjoyed character artists' performances than the so called "Superstars" – Should one care whom they call superstars or enjoy the “Performers”.
I have always admired innumerable successful, happy businessmen around me who have always amazed me with their "Never-say-die" attitude than the one who has been singled out just because he happens to be the "Richest businessman" - Should one care who ranks in the Forbes list of the Richest or admire the “Doers all around”.
I have admired some gutsy traders in my time (My critics & many) and there could be many whose trading life is not chronicled. - Should one worry that they could never be like a Jesse Livermoore or continue to evolve in their own way.
Inspirational stories are meant to instill confidence in the aspiring, struggling, talented lot that by working hard..., by keeping faith in one's work/ talents....by not getting fixated on the adulations/ prizes & trophies....and above all by loving what one does, your life is "ALREADY A SUCCESS".
In a horse race, it is just an inch that separates the winner from the runner-up. Unfortunately world gives so much importance to the “inch”. World also gives importance to the rank holders or the drop outs who made that inch. Is being part of the million is shameful..? It is shameful, if you do not live upto your potential. You attempt to live upto your potential but end unsuccessful.. – Is it a failure. There are many who supports another’s dream but will not be part of the glory. Is their life a waste?
If the world declares "Aishwarya Rai is the Miss World", then the "Stupid world" has missed seeing the beauty in "all the other women". Should one be depressed if he does not have such a “world beauty” in their life or should they cherish the “Home beauty” in their house.
One should not want to or aspire to be the "One in a Million". Just live out “Your Life”. As “OSHO” is fond of saying – A rose will live a rose and not aspire to be a Jasmine. Only Humans attempt to “ape another “and end disappointed.
Whatever is posted today is not to “Ape Steve Jobs” but
to feel the “Faith in connecting the dots”…
to learn “to love whatever we do” …
and realize that “ each day is precious and treat it as if its your last day”.
However, by following your path, if you end up as the “One in Million”, its OK. As Lord Krishna says “Just take care of your duty..Keep your eyes & mind off the result”.
Live your life exceling in whatever you do best and do not care if it measures up to somebody’s standards or the world recognises it or not. This way...you’ll be living a glorious life.
As humans we crave for recognition for our work to satisfy the ego and believe that it is life's goal.
In the race,there are so many compromises on the Real Quality of life.
Every person's life is a kaleidoscope of experiences.
Every person is a minute dot and every single dot matters in the links in this universe.
The so called successfull person's work is raised on the multitude of dots around him.
Instead of searching for somebody else to crown us with title of success,to search
within ourselves and progress being our best is the better way to lead a glorious life as you aptly say!
Hi Sir;
I bow to your Intelligence! I am Grateful to be here.
“I don’t think of my life as a career. I do stuff. I respond to stuff. That’s not a career — it’s a life!” - Steve Jobs
Thanx
hats off and salutations to you ilango ji for not only
reproducing the speech of steve jobs but also giving
us your wonderful views which are so very enriching
for our souls !
just nifty is a platform where you just do not share
your trading acumen and skills ilango ji, you truely
teach us all the art of living.
aum namah sivaya
dear friends,
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i take this opportunity to wish a very happy diwali to entire vfm family.
love and regards
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rajivhtc@gmail.com
ilango ji and friends forgive me for reproducing my
message posted at vfm which addresses some of the
members of vfm family.
however ignoring the names, i would request ilango ji
and all the just nifty family to come out and
express their views on nifty bees.
once again i seek forgiveness for reproducing a message
which i originally wrote for vfm.
warm regards
ilango ji , kindly delete my post if you find it
inappropriate and not in a good taste. once
again sorry for my mistake.
dear ilango sir,
thanks to you for such inspirational articles at the weekend
@rajiv malik
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Ilango,
Ok.I haven’t written it clearly then.
Steve bunked the classes. He didn’t obey the rules and was a nightmare for his professors. He can say several stories about that bunking now because is a success man now. How Thirubai built his fortune? We all know the tactics?
How can these people are face of inspiration to the next generation? Am not against the inspirational people and stories. But am against the stories from people who are not at all fit for that. If a person do not have the will or patience to follow the basic guidelines for success, how can he guide, advise or inspire his next generation? Won’t it be misguiding the next generation?. Only one steve or thirubhai can taste success omitting basics.
This generation lacks focus, commitment and enthusiasm. When they read about Steve jobs, the only point which impress them very much is “dropped out”. I heard from my neighbour’s son ” steve jobs didn’t waste time sitting in classes. He used those time to spend on his favorite subjects and he succeeded”. It’s not that poor kid’s mistake. It’s a blunder from the non-responsive media and poor parents. We should teach values and life to this generation. These values should be from the good resources. I know we cannot expect mahatma from everyone. Even Mahatma has slipped in many ways. Morals should ignite the mind and should not cause ill.
My point is simple. I will take it from your reply only. Just live out “Your Life”. Don’t look out for the top brass. They all have the ugly other side. Look at the common people. Look at the failures. Runner-up and the losers have lot of untold, beautiful stories and practical lessons in them. It is very important to know what are the DON’Ts rather than the Dos and these people are good at narrating it.
Just follow your basics. You will do better.
Ilangoji,
I had read the article before and I was just leaving the blog when I saw a flash of green and I knew you had answered to someone. Many thanks to the questioner! Your answer was very befitting and explicit!
@Nanjil,
You are right, its the drop out tag which is the culprit!!
Agree with Nanjil ji, it is the practical view that this generation faces. But what ilango ji has indicated is what should be educated to the young generation of what is required in everyone's life.
Thank you Ilango ji and Nanjil ji for your wonderful different views. It is equally important facts that our young generation should do.
I asked my son to read thru ilango ji's posting without the comments and asked him what has he understood?
His reply was "Love what you do", so take home message is vital.
@ Nanjil,
How misguided could you be...?
Steve bunked but did not use that time to do drugs or loaf about.
He sat in "Calligraphy classes which later "Connected the dots" when he made "Mac".
This post is not about Dhirubhai's underhand dealings which you have brought in.
When my son's professor asked me "he was a terror" in the college class, I asked him "How's his studies. The answer was "He comes first". I told him then, "He needs more challenging classes".
There are college kids who terrorise the professors because they are sadistic. There are other kids who challenge the professors which is felt as torture by the "inadequate professors".
Our education system is full of such inadequate teachers who can not ignite the young minds...who can not mould the young minds. The syllabus itself is sooo out dated.
Let us not talk about next generation. You and I don't know what they are facing as challenges. You are looking at them with your generation's eyes but they are living in their generation.
I'm seeing so many in the newer generation with focus, commitment and enthusiasm. SO forget about that, please.
I would rather tell my children the "dos" than the "donts". Just Do it - I have heard. Haven't heard a "Don't do it" being so popular.
Buddha got enlightened only because he was on this side(material) of the world first and then moved to other side. Without the "all kinds world life" wherein one gets bruised...dirtied..failed, one can not evolve.
@ Bala,
You did to your son what every father should do.. every teacher should do.
Just show them. They'll pick up whatever suits them. Why force our views on another.?
@AshishAg,
Great! You got it right? So what? Have the people read so far not noticing the spell mistake and are you the only sharp eye?
You got the essence of my comment? Right? That’s it!! Skip the rest. Put your thoughts on the topic being discussed if possible for others to explore something or just read and go on!! What purpose your comment serves here? Don’t waste time and life in unwanted things :)
This applies to trading too. We sneak nose into many unwanted things and end up in the mess. I see many intraday players desperately looking for OI figures. What use?. Select very few tools and dig them deeper and stick to only with those. Rest everything – JUST SKIP!!
"चाँद को इतना तो मालूम है तू प्यासी है, तू भी अब उस के निकलने का इंतजार ना कर , भूख गर जब्त से बाहर है तो कैसा रोज़ा ? इन गवाहों की ज़रूरत पे मुझे प्यार ना कर ..."
Let's view the holy chand of love(करवाचौथ)
Dr. Kumar Vishwas
Ilango,
Steve bunked and spent most of the time at hare Krishna temple. I know most of the media writes that he took only lunch at Hare Krishna temple. He preferred that spot because he was already fascinated with the hippies movement and were leading that life partially. We all are aware the lifestyle of hippies and I don’t need to explain about dope and loaf. He spent his nights at corridors and mates rooms. These were all eccentric activities considering that he was still in the first semester of the college. It must have obviously spoiled the atmosphere among other students. He didn’t spend all his bunked time for sitting in the calligraphy classes.
I agree with your point that there are kids who need more challenges and cannot tolerate with the education system. But still those kids understand their responsibility and prove themselves within the rules framed. Take the case of your son. He didn’t give up his terror attitude which is his asset but the same time he understood his responsibility and respected the system and came first. He must have been the inspirer among his gang. That’s what am emphasising. Though these kids are far superior than the professors, they do not spoil the atmosphere. But steve is not definitely not that kind.
Right, I know it is not the discussion about if steve is a perfect soul or not?. It is about whether the inspiration is worthy or not.
What I experience is that, this generation compared to your and my (am in my early thirties) generation definitely lack everything. You and me(!) had more seriousness and fought for everything. My perception is not a generation gap. If they are bolder and courageous than you and me and I can understand that their attitude is different. But it is not the case. Your generation and mine did not have so much open resources. Mostly we were taught ( whether it is bad or good) at least upto 15 years and later we selected our path by exploring things. But this generation gets everything at their foot step. It is our responsibility to make sure that they get the right resources and the right essence.
Of course bala did the right thing and he has gifted child to pick up the right essence of " love what you do" .
for a argument sake, what if the kid says " you have to drop out" and spend your time in "what you love" ?
@ Nanjil....
For the same argument sake, I would approve.
What I do now is no way approved by my parents...and totally different from education credentials.
You can visit my blog to see my credentials.
But now, I love what I do....and my son loves too what I do...
BTW, I am full time trader.
Too much obsessed view on anything is not healthy too.
I am against this kind of post...
We as corporate want people to do just what they are said to do by the system. We designed education system to create ready made employees.
If every one starts doing their own "what you love", then who will be employee to generate profits for us, we will some how lobby Govt and see that this kind of articles are not published and politicians would be very happy to do that as they would not need any one to challenge Govt system
@ Nanjil,
You take whatever attracts you. You seem to be focusing on "that part of steve's life" which he has passed through and reached a pinnacle. Don't be judgemental, please.
If you look deeper even in Mahatma's life, he has passed through a phase that he was ashamed of. But he moved on.
Choice, of course, is yours....which part to cling to.
I was fascinated & influenced by the Hippy movement..Beatles..Anti-war.. OSHO..etc. I & most of that generation moved on. If anyone judges me by that part of my life, he has no place in my life. I do not like Judging kind.
And I despise those who compare generations. Each generation is good in their own. The quality of life has come down not because of the new generation but that is what the previous generation has passed on in their greed & haste. Why blame the new generation for what their predecessors has created.?
what if the kid says " you have to drop out" and spend your time in "what you love" ? -- The answer to that is "You have to allow your child the freedom to choose" while sharing your views. How many has the courage to do it.?
Bus..sab batein kartehain. Kuch karne ki himmat nahin hain. Samajse darte hain. Aur dar dar ke jeeke martehain.. You have to have a lot of courage to start into a new path.
@ Bala,
I am proud to have known such a father as you. I pray more such fathers treat their children the way you do. Kudos to you. And a big salute.
:) Very Inspirational ...gives motivation
to go on ....waiting for Moon to come out , so that I can break
my fast .
Happy Karwachauth to all !
master .let me recollect the rainbow talk.the views definitely spice up .lets take wt works out .as imperfect souls,we need mentors idols ,views exchanges,so as to make ourselves complete. its an effort that goes on on.wt we do with our one life is ones choice .some choices exist,some we create. make a choice..good day.
Seen a lot of times that someone is taking a single comment of Master out of context...but a whole post??? This has to be the first time! :)
Better to read a number of Saturday posts from the blog archiv...that would help to get a basic idea about the philosophy of Master. Perhaps then this post and Master's comments today could be understood to its entirety.
Ilango,
Move on! True everyone has moved on. We call him mahatma because he moved on and shown us the way of life to discover yourself and others.
Steve has moved on as a businessman. He never moved on as an individual.
Am not focusing on only one part of life. Steve throughout his life tortured his surroundings. Every person worked with steve departed him at one stage. He never followed any basic rule at home, college and office. Apple had a rule that latecomers will not get parking slots. Steve used to park his car in the slots allotted for physically disabled. We all know about Apple’s app bundles. All apps cannot be from external sources. Though it’s business tactic for success, it’s simple example about Steve’s attitude.
I again reiterate that am setting Steve as an example. My point is not to disregard whatever he does. I completely accept him as the true businessman and as an innovator. But I cannot digest him as an true inspirer. It’s not a judgmental. I put up my thoughts based on the facts.
It’s easy for every one to reach the peak if there are no rules. But the true success is when you compete loyally within the defined system and rules. We can take thousands of such examples from history including mahatma who made success by following discipline.
Am not at all blaming new generation. I concern about them for the same reason of low values such as greed, disrespect to honesty and loyalty etc, we are leaving to them. I concern about how this generation will face the competitive world with such low values set as standards. So, if at all needed, it should be a worthy resources and inspiration to them not to slip anywhere.
Yes. We should have lot of courage to make it straight. Unfortunately, I still don’t have that courage and hope I will try to grow it.
Bala,
If you are truly speaking from your heart then i repeat
Ilango's comment.Am trying hard practically the same way with my kids. Miles to go !
Fire,
Do you think Ilango will reply if am taking his
post out of context?
Crorepathi,
Grow up!
Namaste Ilango sir and all,
"And I despise those who compare generations. Each generation is good in their own. The quality of life has come down not because of the new generation but that is what the previous generation has passed on in their greed & haste. Why blame the new generation for what their predecessors has created.?"
Very very true!! In many instances I have felt that the children of present generation are VERY VERY CLEAR in what they do. They teach us many things and many facets of life. They take any thing in a very easy and sportive way - not because of playfulness - but with good clarity and maturity!! I have seen a lot of such qualities with my children themselves. In fact I have learnt a lot from them – only thing we as parents must be ready to learn from them rather then telling the kids – “I KNOW – Just follow me Blindly”
I used to get worried over all small issues - They taught me that by taking things lightly - we can easily find a solution!! First thing is my son would make me laugh doing any pranks of his!! then he would say - think now - you will get an easy solution!! - true to it I would feel light and it helps me think clearly and go for the best solution!! I was ready to accept their guidance without the EGO of – “what can a child teach the parent”!! I have to accept the fact that now-a-days I take things just as it is and have toned down my tension. My children’s favourite statement – “அம்மா நீ ஒரு லூசு”
P.S :I could not even think in my dreams of me stating such a thing to my MOM!!
One more favourite statement - "Amma you are a Waste"!!!:)- always they say this because they feel I do not utilise my qualification and not giving importance to my career rather putting all my family affairs onto my head and thinking everything is running only because of me!!
Children are very LOVABLE - we must choose to love and accept them for what they are and not for what we as parents want them to be!!
This discussion reminded me of how differently the
heart and mind perceive things.
I didn't know anything about Steve Jobs past, so I didn't know about his visits to the Hare Krishna temple and hippie culture, or about Pixar.
Some of these achievers seem blinkered in their ability to do what they love, despite how it looks to the world - which I identify with though I see with my head a depressing side to it too.
One of my heroes is Henry David Thoreau who talks of 'following the beat of a different drummer'.
The mind would look at his life is that he wasted his education as a hermit living on Walden Pond, was a tax-dodger and ended up in as a petty forestland-surveyor, died a bachelor.
But others may see that by following his heart to the woods he loved he also wrote wonderful books, reinvented rugged individualism, the true American Dream, and wrote the first philosophical basis of non-violent resistance (which freed the entire third world and nazi-occupied Europe).
@Ilango
Hare Ram Hare Krishna
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f_v9oQhVE2E
Thiru AshishAg
Why the song is "Hare" Ram "Hare" Krishna, even if they are depicted "dark-blue" in pictures?
Song written during bull market? Lyricist could only see green? :D
@Ilango
Let me fill the generation gap as well so that there are no complaints!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oQYSkYKNoJE&feature=related
@DR
Bang-head lyrics :D
@nanjil how could you misspell such a great man again and again?
Man please he was the great Dhirubhai Ambani
Thirubhai?
Thirubhai?
@Nanjil,
Its amazing to see a man so full of himself, that he divides the whole world in two simple camps -- one abiding by HIS thoughts/values/rules, and one that doesn't. :)
As AshisAg said, you have got an acerbic tongue indeed. And you have been putting it to good use, as seen in the last few days. This is not a forum for fighting friend, this is for discussion. The way you have replied to the harmless joke of Ashis was rude to say the least, and uncalled for.
You are only in the early thirties, so you have a LOT to see, experience and learn from life, if not the seniors here. Don't pass judgement in a hurry. There will be wonderful things in life, like JNSAR,:), but then this whole blog can't be limited to that. Then it would suffice for Master to just update the JNSAR everyday and no write-up or charts would be needed. But we human beings have to try to better ourselves all the time, otherwise progress stops. Be it as a trader, or as a human being.
Every generation has worried over the future of the next, including our parents. But that didn't stop our generation from doing wonderful things, in new directions. So will our next. We can't fight the historical forces at work, or life.
Seeing only at the dark side of things come easily, as getting bitter. But looking for light remaining in a dark room is what makes the difference. Everything is Grey, not pure White or Unadulterated Black. The choice is ours, what to pick.
Someone asked Buddha," You are saying that everyone can be enlightened. Then why are not everyone but you alone." Buddha asked him to go to every house in the village and ask everyone, what is their deepest desire. When the man returned in the evening, He asked that how many had "Enlightenment" as the desire. None was the answer. :)
“My job is not to be easy on people. My job is to take these great people we have and to push them and make them even better.” --- Steve Jobs
Cost is a fact, Price is a policy and value is an opinion!
Steve Jobs --R.I.P.
Bottom line is " Do whatever you love but also make money lots of money doing what you love but legitimately !" Rest is immaterial..:-)
Dear Ilango sir!
Thanx always for inspirational stories & special thanx for long comments this time which are more valuable than thousand stories.
Rgrds
Kumar
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Don’t compare yourself with anyone in this world. If you do so, you are insulting yourself.
You are not responsible for what people think about you. But you are responsible for what you give them to think about you.
A man is lucky if he is the first love of a woman.
A woman is lucky if she is the last love of a man.
Write your Sad times in Sand, Write your Good times in Stone.
Behind every successful man, there is an untold pain in his heart.
Without your involvement you can't succeed. With your involvement you can't fail.
Love your job but don't love your Company because you may not know when your company stops loving you.
You may get DELAYED to reach your Targets. But every step you take towards your target is EQUAL to Victory.
It's better to loose your Ego to the one you Love,
than to loose the one you LOVE because of EGO.
Don't make promise when you are in JOY . Don't reply when you are SAD. Don't take decisions when you are ANGRY. Think twice, Act wise. BE happy.
When you start caring about yourself, you start loving somebody. But when start caring about others somebody will start loving you.
What is the Secret of SUCCESS... ? 'RIGHT DECISIONS'
How do you make Right Decisions... 'EXPERIENCE'
How do you get Experience... ? 'WRONG DECISIONS'
Happiness is like a radio station, broadcasting all d time. U just have to learn how to tune in & receive it properly. Stay tuned & be happy always!
Nice updaate
all masters gave us a message, like
raj kapoor by his films..
and osho by his discourses...
but my master...."just nifty"
Jigs,
My apologies for the misspelling.
Fire,
I normally don't get into such arguments.But look at the way AshisAg and Jigs put up their concern.They both deserved the appropriate and respective answers from my side.
Your third para is completely out of context. I don't understand what judgement I have given? Have I asked Ilango to stop the weekend stories? Rather you are judging me as “acerbic” with just 5 to 10 comments from me!!
Hey Nanjil,
Whom do you think you are, stop this bloody advice of yours.
Do act oversmart.
Sujatha - Record breakkkkkkkkkkkk :) :)
PS : Time to read "His calls to the Nation" book by Swami Vivekananda??
At this stage I do remember the words of
Khalil Gigran :
“Your children are not your children.
They are sons and daughters of Life's longing for itself.
They come through you but not from you.
And though they are with you yet they belong not to you.
You may give them your love but not your thoughts,
For they have their own thoughts.
You may house their bodies but not their souls,
For thir souls dwell in the house of tomorrow, which you cannot visit, not even in your dreams.
You may strive to be like them, but seek not to make them like you.
For life goes not backward nor tarries with yesterday.
You are the bows from which your children as living arrows are sent forth.
The archer sees the make upon the path of the infinite, and He bends you with His might that His arrows may go swift and far.
Let your bending in the archer's hand be for gladness.
For even as He loves the arrow that flies, so He also loves the bow that is stable.”
― Khalil Gibran
Crorepathi,
நயனிலன் என்பது சொல்லும் பயனில
பாரித் துரைக்கும் உரை.
:)
Sujatha,
Take up one idea. Make that one idea your life.Think of it, dream of it,live on that idea. Let the brain, muscles, nerves, every part of your body, be fullof that idea alone. This is the way to success..If we really want to be blessed, and make others blessed, we must go deeper.
all time favorite.
Nanjil,
சாத்தான் வேதம் ஒதுதாம்...
The above said Kural perfectly fits you not anyone else :)
"Take up one idea. Make that one idea your life.Think of it, dream of it,live on that idea. Let the brain, muscles, nerves, every part of your body, be fullof that idea alone. This is the way to success..If we really want to be blessed, and make others blessed, we must go deeper."
That is what Steve jobs did.
That is what Dhirubai Ambani did.
That's how one in a million is made.
And that's why Steve Appeared in a post in Just Nifty.
Thank you steve, Thank your Sir
Very nice emotional and touching post.... he was a great guy...
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Guys I missed out on the sat discussion.
Just an update
Hare Krishna movement is not a hippy movement as
someone commented.
Swami Prabhupada went to the US at the age of 65 and
gave the teachings of Krishna to the hippies and junkies
and they voluntarily took up bhakti movement and became
Krishna devotees. Today, all of them are great sanyasis.
One should read the philosophy and visit their
institutions and then comment.
Saint Chaitanya from Bengal initiated the movement
in the 15th century.
I am not plugging for this group and I do not belong
to it but I am have done research in Indian and Int
Philosophy and know what I am talking about.
Thanks for listening to me.
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