Wednesday, February 6, 2013

Good Bye, Amma

We like to believe that life will last forever especially our loved one's.
But every story has an end.
A glorious journey filled with unconditional love, not just for her sons and grandsons but for everyone she came into contact with, has just ended.
I could not be with her in her last moments but on reaching home I went straight to the room I always loved to visit like a child and felt the emptiness she left behind.
We just sat there to feel the emptiness, undergo the pain of it all in respect to the love that she poured out during her 84 years.
She maintained dignity in her obscure life, known only to the close people.
I want to hear people talk about her interactions with them. I have just started it. I'll continue that till this evening as her proud son and will get back with my other family tomorrow.
We knew her stay was limited and she wanted it to end soon so that she, like always, was not a burden to anyone.
I prayed for her wish to be fulfilled and all your prayers just made it all possible that she had a peaceful exit. I thank you for being there and saying those prayers.
The divine in her was visible on the arrival of many, many squirrels jumping around inside the house a day before her demise, she being Ram's devotee.
And nature too showered on her day to send her off.
RIP...Amma.

83 comments:

K P Singh said...

Please accept my deepest condolences to you and your family.may the almighty give you courage to bear the pain of an irreparable loss.

God Bless.

u.k.Raj said...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Lhy915oczQY

Prashant said...

A tree is known by its fruit. We can easily make the estimate of your mother. May her soul rest in peace.

Mohan said...

Master-- My deepest condolences to you and your family. I believe you possesed the courage from her enough to bury the pain and move on. May her soul rest in peace!

shiva said...

deepest condolences...

maulik00777 said...

sad ....let pray her soul rest in peace

Bala C said...
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Mahathi Systems said...

Sir,
My deepest condolences to you & your family.
Once again it is proved that Lord Rama will send his pallaki or his beloved once to accompany his devotees in their last journey.

Bala C said...

Dear Ilango Ji,

There are no words to console for such invaluable loss.

I sincerely pray god to give you the strength to overcome such a difficult situation.

paddy said...

RIP Great Soul!!

amber said...

Sir ILango ji My heartfelt condolences to you and your family.

Bytes said...

Meri Maa pyari maa mama dedicated to "Amma "

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=01Va8mONV_o

RIP

Anonymous said...

Dear Sir,

Ram's devotee is in vaikut.

She will pour his blessing from there as always.

Though physical absence is always untolerable.

Anonymous said...

her not his. sorry

Unknown said...

my tears came out the way u loved/cared for her

bb said...

Ilango,
I join you in this hour of grief to pay my respect for the departed soul. I think you are blessed to get the love of your mother till her 84 years of age.
May god give you the strength to bear such loss.
Regards

satheesh said...

Namaste Sir,

Loss of dear ones' can never be consoled by words - especially parents. When my parents life ceased I just prayed to them to be my gaurdian angels and till today I pray to them in every step of my life - and they do keep guiding me holding me with their invisible hands.

I am sure you would get it from your mother too.

K.srinivasan MGR NAGAR said...

Sir, my deepest condolence u and ur family.

Sringesh said...

Dear Master,

My heart felt condolences.

Sringesh

Parminder said...

Master ilango,
In this world Loss of love can be felt only by the one who feels it,
But YOUR Mother would be very proud to see what his son is doing for the World.
Hats OFF to your DEDICATION and LOVE
regards
☺☺

ALBELA HOUSE said...

R/Ilango Sir,Namaste,ॐ भूर्भुवः स्वः

तत्सवितुर्वरेण्यं

भर्गो देवस्यः धीमहि

धियो यो नः प्रचोदयात्

SANPOT said...

Dear Ilango Sir, only the Pious Soul has left this Mortal Body. Her Blessings and Love will be forever with you. We all join you and your family to fill the emptiness caused by Her sad Demise and pray to the God that The Soul rests in Eternal Peace.

Unknown said...

Dear Sir,It is extremely sad for us to know of this incident,
May you have the courage.

Unknown said...

Dear Sir,It is extremely sad for us to know of this incident,
May you have the courage.

SGRaman said...

"I went straight to the room I always loved to visit like a child and felt the emptiness and she left behind." - Ilango.

Sir, I truly understand the above statement, as I have been experiencing this feeling for the past couple of years after my father's departure from this world.

Sir, only her body has left you. Her soul will be around you, for ever.

Hope you might have seen this (Tamil) song on mother. If not, please have a look at it. Copy pasting URL:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=90egSUX0InU

athshree said...

purnamadah purnamidam purnaat purnamudachyate
purnasya purnaamadaya purnameva vashishyate.

purnamadah: 'That is complete.'
purnamidam: 'This is complete.'
purnamadah purnamidam 'That is complete, this is complete'.
purnat purna mudachyate - 'From that completeness comes this completeness'
purnasya purnamadaya - If we take away this completeness from that completeness'
purnameva vashishyate: 'Only completeness remains.'

Yogavidya by Parimal Devnath said...

Namaste Sir
with a heavy heart i share your feelings at this odd moment. i lost both my parents. today i feel like having them around more than ever, knowing quite well they are not to come back. this is 'reality' we have to take in our own stride. this reality is our very own, none can participate in this close corner of my personal life. and this is so for all of us.
Mother is the embodiment of LOVE and compassion. Mother epitomizes Warmth and coziness and security. Mother gives joy in the moment of loss and desperation. Mother is divinity in real term. She infuses 'life' in us. She feeds us from her very corporeal existence.
O Mother! O Mother!


Nitin Kadam said...

Dear Master,
My Heartfelt Condolence.
May God Bless the Departed Soul.

Gita said...

RIP...Amma

sunder said...

Dear Master,

My deepest condolence u and ur family.
May GOD Bless the Departed Soul

Admin said...

Namaste Ilango Sir & all members.

Master my heartfelt condolences to you & your family.

Prozenics said...
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Prozenics said...

Dear Elango Sir,

My heartful condolences to you. Let God give you all strength during these time

Atharva said...

Dear Master,

My deepest Condolence.

Nishit Vadhavkar said...

RIP.

My deepest condolences.

San said...

Our dead are never dead to us, until we have forgotten them. I Know she will live in your memories for ever and ever..

My Deepest condolences SIR.

Saravanan Thangavelu said...

My Heartfelt Condolences..ilango sir.

Mahathi Systems said...

Dear Blog mates,
any one has similar technical table to post or any links some where?

Shyam said...

ॐ
न जायते म्रियते वा कदाचिन्नायं भूत्वा भविता वा न भूयः।
अजो नित्यः शाश्वतोऽयं पुराणो न हन्यते हन्यमाने शरीरे।।
Never is this One born, and never does It die; nor is it that having come to exist, It will again cease to be. This One is birthless, eternal, undecaying, ancient; It is not killed when the body is killed.

My deepest condolences to you and your family.

Billgates said...

My sincere condolences and support to you and your family members.
Take very good care of yourself.bye

sometimesbullsometimesbear said...

Dear Ilango Death is a new beginning and a wonderful one at that. She is our amma too. Love her. She will continue guiding u in ur good work. Take care.

TRADINGTAMILAN said...

Dear master,
My deepest condolence.....

vishal modi said...

My Heartfelt Condolences..ilango sir.

Dharmendra said...

My Heartfelt Condolences..ilango sir.

Suresh said...
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Manoj Kumar D said...

There is no real death in true sense...
Just the material thing have vanished...
Atma Amar hai....
Real appreciation would be to remember their good things and imbibe into our habits and carry out the good messages to the forth coming generation...

Suresh said...

Ilangoji,Life will not last forever,but the learning we have had in this life will last forever, through generations ..Your Amma taught many things to you, which you're sharing with your children who will take it further ..And there are many,like me In this blog who would've learned many things from your teaching and intend to pass it further..Your Amma will live for many generations through her son's lifeskills sharing...RIP Amma...

venkatapathy l said...

My Dear Ilango,

Your mental environment will have a hole - an emptiness - no doubt. It will shrink over a period a period of time.

'Uranguvathu polum saakkadu urangi vizhippadhu polum pirappu'.

Love you Ilango.

LV

Sukanya said...

I have never expected a new page by you today! Ilangiji, your gesture is as divine as your words. Truely I am proud of you- a proud son of proud parents, who just shows how to proceed in life..May God give you a lot of courage like this how to confront some hardest time in life and inspire others!
Monil joshi> your messages above in this page in particular and in this in general is very crude. Please think to delete your '..tips' message.

PAT said...

Very sorry to hear about your loss.Please accept my sincere condolences to you n your family.God bless her soul.

madamuniramaiah said...

GETTING TEARS.

Unknown said...

Kids are always like their parents... they always cultivate the good or bad from their parents...
WAIT...Ilangoji ... the kid here is you...
YOU being such a marvellous person... I really feely even your parents will be such... hats off to AMMA who has given a wonderful kid to us who leads us day in day out...
Let the memories of AMMA stay forever
RIP AMMA...

Bramesh said...

Master-- My deepest condolences to you and your family. I believe you possesed the courage from her enough to bury the pain and move on. May her soul rest in peace!

raj lakhani said...

Very sorry to hear about your loss.Please accept my sincere condolences to you and your family.God bless her soul.

KIRAN said...

Atma reached heaven.Living god reached the destination of god.rest in peace.

shriram said...

Master,

Ur words & behaviour are worth emulating. No wonder the credit of your mental balance goes to "Amma" in a major way.

She lives now thru you, spreading the message to a gr8er set of fortunate ppl, ur disciples !

tc
SMO

Lalit said...

Respected Master
My heart felt condolences

shyamalroy76 said...

Sir, I can understand your feelings now, I had gone through same few years back.
Pls accept my sincere condolences

Kris said...

Pl accept my deepest condolences. May her soul rest in peace.

Kind Regards
Kris

Kumar Technicals said...

Dear ILango Sir!

Though the pain of losing mother is profound and unsounded, it is only the prayers & company of near and dear ones that not only reduces the pain but also gives strength to bear the shock. May God bless peace to AMMA's soul & strength to all your family members.

Rgrds,

Kumar

Bhushan said...

Dear Ilango sir,
My condolences to you and your family
My mother passing is still fresh in my memory

Swami tinhi jagacha aai vina bhikari

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nckSMw3J34U


Deva said...

Please accept my sincere condolences and support to you and your family members.

Dinesh Rishi said...

We grieve the sad demise of Ilango Sir's mother, May her soul rest in peace.

Good Bye Amma

sandeep said...

Dear master,
My deepest condolence every body who is associated with u is feeling really bad. May God bless peace to amma soul sir

Manish said...

Dear master,

You are blessed to have the presence of your Beloved Amma till 84 years.

Yes we all believe that Life and our Dear One's will be with us forever but that is not the case.

My Condolences to you and your family !!!

TC



mynac said...

Dear Ilango,
Although it's difficult today to see beyond the sorrow, may looking back in memory help comfort you tomorrow.May her soul rest in peace..

Unknown said...

Dear Master

I am praying for your mother's soul to go to God's house.

Dr.Sidharth Aurora said...

Everything is replaceable in life except the love of parents........words play no role at this juncture...keep the faith

sithirai lingam said...

Ilango Sir

Amma

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nsEDMuDPjzg

Sanjay said...

Memory can tell us only what we were,
In company with those we loved;
It cannot help us find out what each of us,
Alone, must now become.
Yet, no person is really alone;
Those who live no more still echo
Within our thoughts and words,
And what they did has become
Woven into what we are.

RIP "Amma"

rochak parekh said...

resp. I lango sir

i have no words, i am speechless by ur grievance, by ur loss, i am on a journey, and i logged in from a cyber cafe, and came to know about this, this is so shocking for me

RIP AMMA

Ranga said...

While she parted, she is all ways there.
The teachings, learnings & meomories, for you is eternal.
I with my friends are with you Illango

seshu said...

dear illango sir my heart felt condolence to your family members.

Gopkrish said...

Dear Sir,

My deepest condolence to you and your family.
May GOD Bless the Departed Soul

NEVER GIVE UP said...

Dear Ilango Sir,

We can understand your sadness.
May God bless the departed soul,She will always be with you not physically but spritually.

Caharan Sparsh.

Vivek said...

Dear Ilango Sir,
My deepest condolences to you and your family. Praying that god may give you mote courage to bear with the situation.
Regards,
Vivek

Daya Nand said...

sir,i am feeling AMMA THROUGH YOU!

Stockathon said...

Dear Ilango Sir,

The Memories and the Blessings of Amma will always remain with you.

Take care!

Bullish Cartel said...

There are not enough words in the English dictionary to describe importance and impact of parents throughout ones existence, god bless sir, we share your grief

Amit Arora said...

Dear master,
My deepest condolence to you and your family

Waquar said...

Ilangoji,

My deepest condolences to you and your family.

rekha said...

I could feel the love & emptiness she left behind not only to u but to each & everyone who came into her contact.

I too join with u in the prayer for peace of soul of our departed loving mother.

May god arrange her next journey for further spreading love & affections.

r said...

Goodbye Aiyammé <3 Tears drown me when I think of you everyday. I wish I didn't have to say goodbye to the greatest grandmother I could ever have. . . I hope you will forever live on in me and protect me and our family in life ahead . . . :'( I love you forever <3

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